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August/September 2001 Spotlight Featured Article

The Perfect Conference Fashion Accessory
by Nancy Warren

I found the perfect fashion accessory guaranteed to make your RWA National Conference a once-in-a-lifetime experience. This darling little accessory doesn't have a designer label, correct figure faults or enhance the bust, but the effects are even better. And it doesn't cost a thing.

But sadly you can only wear it once.

My perfect conference accessory?

A First Sale ribbon.

How did this delightful little ribbon, in a fetching shade of pink, make such a difference you may ask. It was the perfect ice-breaker, the perfect conversational aid. Strangers in workshops, on elevators and passing in corridors would stop and exclaim, "Congratulations! Please tell us your story." It was a bit like being a bride for five days in a row.

And who gets more excited about our writing successes than other writers? Who else understands what we've gone through to make that first sale? This is a business of hope and dreams and fantasy and that little ribbon is a reminder that hard work does pay off. That unpubs do become pubs. That dreams do come true. Every time I told the story of how I'd sold my first book (a three book sale actually, to Harlequin Temptation, Blaze and Duets) I'd get a pleasant zing and re-live for a moment the thrill of selling.

For those who'd already sold, whether two or fifty books, I could see that little spark in their eyes as they relived their own story, that thrill of their first sale, and there was an instant of bonding, of shared excitement in a business that has enough ups and downs that the ups should always be celebrated.

For those who were working toward that first sale, it was an affirmation. Yes, it does happen. It can happen. It happened to Nancy, it can happen to me. And perhaps they'd get off the elevator heading to an agent or editor appointment with a little more confidence, a little more determination.

Then there were the moments where one pink ribbon would see another pink ribbon and wave. If anything, those were the best moments. "Isn't this great?" we'd exclaim. "Do you know how to get to the PAN retreat? Are you going to the Harlequin Party?" Call me shallow, but this has been one of my career goals ever since I discovered that while some of us were spending the Friday night of conference at 'How to write a synopsis' workshops, the Pubs were dancing to tinkling music, drinking champagne and generally having a whole lot more fun.

So here, in no particular order, are the moments that stick out for me from the New Orleans RWA National Convention. My Pink Ribbon moments:

Pink Ribbon moment number one: Well, this should have been my first book signing as my Temptation was out in July, but sadly, my books didn't make it for the literacy book signing. I pouted for a few minutes then used the opportunity of having all those romance writers alphabetically listed to find my new on-line friends. I visited and chatted, stocked up on books by my favorite authors and talked until my throat was sore. The highlight was approaching Jennifer Blake, who is the reason I write romance. I felt a little nervous since she's been a real inspiration to me for a long time. She was delightful as I gushed all over her. She caught sight of that little pink ribbon blushing on my chest and congratulated 'me' in her soft southern accent as she autographed a book for me. I walked on cloud nine the rest of the night.

Pink Ribbon moment number two: Went to the eHarlequin open house in the Harlequin/Silhouette suite. Chatted with Lori Foster and she heard my books hadn't arrived for the signing. Turned out the Blaze books hadn't arrived in time for the Blaze debut event, either, but they'd come in that morning. They were stacked in boxes under the banquet tables in the suite. So Lori said, "Maybe your Temptation came in with the Blazes," whereupon she dropped to her knees and crawled under the table cloth to look. I dropped to my knees as well, and then Jayne from eHarlequin joined the search. At one point I glanced up and there was this nice reception with well-dressed people milling around, and in the midst of it all, three bums sticking out from under the table cloths.

Pink Ribbon moment number three: My first Harlequin party. Oh, my. These people sure know how to throw a party. Perhaps this was the moment I really knew I'd arrived. I got my glass of champagne, listened to the tinkling music and thought, Damn, I love writing romance!

Now that I'm back in the 'real world,' the one where I sit all alone in my basement office wrestling with uncooperative characters, dialogue that refuses to sparkle, punchlines about as funny as dead fish and deadlines that approach like speeding freight trains, it's nice to stop once in a while and remember what it's all about.

I think I'll tape that first sale ribbon to the wall as a reminder of the thrill of writing romance, and the once-in-a-lifetime thrill of that first sale.

And next year in Denver, I'll be looking around for the next pink ribbon crowd. "Congratulations!" I'll say. "Tell me your story."

Nancy Warren is a member of GVC.

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